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Monday, 07 March 2005

Okayyy...so i watched The Notebook last nite for like the millionth time...its just keeps gettin better every time i watch it. This movie always puts me in a lovey-dovey mood, so what do i do...i go and look up some 'love' quotes on the internet. I even found some of the quotes from the movie. Here they are..

Lon: "The way I see it, I got three choices. One, I can shoot him. Two, I can kick the crap out of him. Or three, I leave you. Well, all that's no good. You see, 'cause none of those options get me you."

"Duke: "I am no one special, just a common man with common thoughts. I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me, and my name will soon be forgotten. But in one respect, I've succeeded as gloriously as anyone who ever lived. I've loved another with all my heart and soul, and for me, that has always been enough."

Young Allie: Why didn't you write me? Why? It wasn't over for me, I waited for you for seven years. But now its too late.
Young Noah: I wrote you 365 letters. I wrote you everyday for a year.
Young Allie: You wrote me?
Young Noah: Yes. It wasn't over, it still isn't over.

Young Allie: Stay with you? What for? Look at us, we're already fightin'
Young Noah: Well that's what we do, we fight... You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you are a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a 2 second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing.
Young Allie: So what?
Young Noah: So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me, please? Just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? What's it look like? If it's with him, go. Go! I lost you once, I think I can do it again. If I though that's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.
Young Allie: What easy way? There is no easy way, no matter what I do, somebody gets hurt.
Young Noah: Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants? Stop thinking about what I want, what he wants, what your parents want. What do YOU want? What do you WANT?
Young Allie: It's not that simple.
Young Noah: What... do... you... want? Whaddaya want?

Young Allie: I have to go now.

Young Noah: It's not about keeping your promises, it's about following your heart.

"If you want me to fall for you, you have to give me something worth tripping over."

"Perhaps after all our worries and questions, we’ll discover that all along God had the right thing at the right time for us. Perhaps His plan is more wonderful than anything we could create by ourselves - whether it comes with 'pomp and blare,' or quietly, 'like an old friend.' Perhaps... perhaps... we should entrust our questions of 'How?' and 'Who?' and 'When?' into His tender care."

"When you meet that special someone you'll understand why it didn't work out with anyone else."

"I do my thing, and you do your thing. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful."

"Sometimes you have to walk away to see if the other person will follow...."

"I wanna be the girl he looks at from across the room, smiles, and says to his friends, "That's her."

"I'm not looking for someone to live with, I'm looking for someone I can't live without."

"Don't worry if he catches you looking at him 'cause it only means that he's looking back."

"Wait for the boy who pursues you, the one who will make an ordinary moment seem magical, the kind of boy who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person. Wait for the boy who will be your best friend, the person who will drop everything to be with you at any time of the day no matter what the circumstances. Wait for the boy who makes you smile like no other and when he smiles you know he needs you. Wait for the boy who wants to show you off to the world when you're wearing sweats and no makeup. Most of all wait for the boy who will put you at the center of his universe, because obviously he's at the center of yours."

"You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person!"

"Look into my eyes and you will see what you mean to me. Search your heart; search your soul, and when you find me then you'll search no more."

"The hardest thing I've ever done is kept believing that there's someone in this crazy world for me."

Wow..all these quotes just make ya wanna fall in love doesnt ...lol...okay enough with that..i gotta go do somethin else for awhile...lata

Saturday, 05 March 2005

Survey says:

What time is it: 11:02
days Date: 2/5/05
Full Name: Jennifer S. Dunning
Gender: female
Age: ask me
Birthday: April 8
Siblings(age,sex): Jeff (17, male)
Parents: i have 2 of them & i call them: mom & dad
Nieces: N/A

Nefews: N/A

School: PSU Berks
School colors: BLUE N WHITE :)
Car: 2000 Ford Taurus
Car color: Blue
Eye color: Blue
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: past my shoulders
Weight: a lady never tells her weight!
Height: 5'4''
Skin(pale white,tan,dark,black): white
what are you wearing as of now: jeans and a sweatshirt...i know i know...rare occasion....
Are you wearing make-up? of course
Did you take a shower today? yup.
Pets(names,kind): Jack, Beagle
What are you drinking right now? nothing

Do you smoke? nope and never will
If so, what do you smoke? N/A

Do you have a car, or is it your parents? parents

Are you listening to music? yes
If so, what song, and who is it by? Everything i do i do it for you, Bryan Adams

What are your screen names? dreaminn03/lilflirtpsu08

Crush: he'll go unnamed
Person you want to go out with: also will go unnamed
Dating anyone? N/A

If so, who? N/A
How long? N/A

who asked who out? N/A

Are you a virgin? hmmm wouldn't you like to know...those who really know me..know...
How far have you been with a guy/girl? wouldn't you like to know...
How far would you go just to be with the person you crushed? dunno
Are you a little devil, or a sweet little innocent ANGEL? I can be both....

WHo's your best friend? I dont really have a best friend...some are just closer to me than others..

Why is she/he your best friend? Because they are wonderful

What's your perfect dream date like? anything would be fine w/the one i love
Who would it be with? my best friend
where would you go? dunno, anywhere is fine
What kind of music do you listen to? Everything...

*YES OR NO*
Shy: at times...
Outgoing: at times...
Ugly: beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
Pretty: beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
Beautiful: read above 2 answers.
Loveable: yes
Sensitive: yes
Nerdy: yes
Geek: yes
Playa: me..noooo..lol

Playa hata: no
Tall: no
Short: no, in the middle..ill say
Only Child: no
Cheated on a test: no
Did someone else's homework: no
let somone act like you on the phone: no
asked out your crush: nope...
split up a relationship: nope..im not like that
drove a car: yes
road a roller coaster: yes
chickened out on a rollercoaster: yes
went to a concert: yes
said you loved someone when you really didn't: no
said you loved someone and you meant it: yes
kissed someone: yes

*Favorites*
color: baby blue, pink, red
flower: rose
car: anything w/wheels that takes me from point A to point B right now

day: Friday
song: too many to name
cd: dunno
person: my friends
star: oh gosh i dunno
actor: kevin costner, tom cruise
actress: dunno

movie: too many to name
singers: too many to name
bf/gf: nope..not at the moment...

music video: not really

radio stations: FM 97, The Rose (101.3), 102
tv show: Desparate housewives..when i have time and when i can find it on the Tv

friends at school: enough
animals: dogs
school: PSU
boy names: not sure yet..well think about that one when the time comes..lol
girl names: not sure yet...well think about that one when the time comes..lol
pet names: read above

*Friends*
Coolest car: um..
best house: haven't been to all
shortest temper: um...
most talent: Tim and Ryan-biking, Leah-drawing

funniest track record: angela
wierdest taste in the opposite sex: she'll go unnamed
oddest sense of humor: all of us!
dirtyest mind: um
most unusal ideas: dunno......we're all pretty wierd
best girl friends: my girls know themselves......i'm not listing
best guy friends: same as with the girls. favoritism is not good
could you tell them anything: most.
do you trust them: most of them

Out of ur friends, who is the::
shortest: dunno
tallest: Tim
funnyest: they all are
sweetest: you're all sweet
trusted: most
trusting: me
avisor: noone
avisee: whoever cares to listen
smartest: you all are in your own ways
hornyest: hmmm :-p

*Which One*
car or jeep? its a toss up
sweet and ugly or rude and hot? sweet n ugly
tall or short? tall rather than short

long hair in the summer or short hair in the winter: long summer
soggy bread or raw meat? well the soggy bread...no diseases for me
pringles or doritos? both are good

scary movie or romantic? romantic def

during the movie. what movie?...lol hahah
dog or cat? dog....

fish or bird? fish

shoes or sandles? whatever.
hot or cute? cute; hot implies : impressive body w/out brains.......cute most times are both.
love or like? love is too strong of a word to use
staple your tongue or staple your lip? neither. ouch
long nails or no nails at all? long nails
spinach or raw fish? spinach
green beans or refrien beans? green beans
email or mail? email, the snail mail takes way too long..

What time is it now? 11:23
Who do u hope fills this out? my readers
Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?" Michael replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or ... you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or...I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or... I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life."
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.
"Yes, it is," Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live your life." I reflected on what Michael said. Soon hereafter, I left the Tower Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard that Michael was involved in a serious accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back. I saw Michael about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins! Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon-to-be born daughter," Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or...I could choose to die. I chose to live." "Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Michael continued, "..the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine.But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man'. I knew I needed to take action." "What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Michael. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes, I replied.' The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Gravity'." Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead." Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude... I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew 6:34. After all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
Ladies, a good friend forwarded this to me...these are good lessons to be learned

75 Lessons that MUST be learned in relationships.......

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.

4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

6. Don't force an attraction

7. Slower is better.

8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

9. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.

11. Don't settle.

12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that?

14. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

15. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.

16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.

18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding the prince.

20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.

21. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

23. Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.

24. Be honest and upfront.

25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.

26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on).

27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).

28. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of them...flee.

29. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.

30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not will to follow himself--double-standard.

31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.

32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less.

33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you!

34. Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see.

35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is. Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying, let him go.

36. Actions speak louder than words.

37. Never let a man define who you are.

38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to yourself for that.

39. Never borrow someone else's man.

40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with him.

42. To use painful hard-won wisdom to 'get it right' the next time.

43. Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life of the number one person in your life.

44. Love is a verb ...

45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.

46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

47. All men are NOT dogs.

48. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.

49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.

50. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.

51. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

52. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.

55. Never become your man's "therapist".

56. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions.

57. A real healthy relationship requires two people. One person can end it but it takes two to make it work.

58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a man loves you, there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.

59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him he takes it for granted.

60. Give him his space...let him go out with his boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you, You can't force a man to hang out with you.

61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't.

62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

63. Never move into his mother's house.

64. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone.

65. Never co-sign for a man.

66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.

67. Never spoil your man...let him spoil you.

68. Never let a man mess up your credit.

69. When its time to let go, let go.

70. Good men should be treated like good men.

71. Don't play games.

72. You can't make a whore into a housewife - or husband.

73. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

74. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.

75. NEVER date a guy who wears colored contacts.

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- Birthday: 4/8/1985
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I am a Sophomore at PSU Berks, and my major is Life Science. I am from Lancaster, PA, and I love to shop, play tennis, hang out with friends, and play with my "Beagle-boy" named Jack!!